Purpose of Exposing Ivan
I am now 50 years old. I met him when I was 22 years old. We dated for 2 years and got married when I was 24 years old. - 30 Dec 1995. We had our 1st children, Joel, 9 months later. I was 25 years old 8 Oct 1996. This year is 2022, we have been married for 25 years and separated 1 year. A total of 26 years. I will now begin the process of telling the whole story of the abuse that I have gone through with Ivan Chong Hock Lye, who processes to be a Christian. Let me begin to tell the story and the journey of victimization and abuse which lasted for 25 years, till the time I left him on 29 April 2022. I never thought of telling my story. I had all intentions of leaving quietly to be left alone to do live my new life. But various events brought me to where I am now, to tell the story of my abuse i Let me begin by writing a timeline of our lives together. 1994: Met in Mattel Toys, where I worked in Port Klang. He was the Engineer and I was a Confidential Secretary in the HR Dept. 1994: Bo